By wanting things, by being fearful of missing things, by needing things rather than believing and being, one achieves very little and loses a great deal. Because wanting and needing ensures loss of connection, a loss of understanding. Allowing is the way to be. Allowing things to be, allowing things to unfold. Allowing life to be what it is.
Trying to control life is like trying to erect a wall that would block the sea. You can build a big wall but eventually the sea will over power it. You can spend your life building it – eventually it will be consumed by something that is so much bigger and majestic in its being.